Manjung Holidays End Year 2011

Salam, Me and kids (no daddy again) going back to Manjung for short holiday...and also attending Zawiyah (anak arwah Makcik Noly) engagement day. Actually I'm doing for her hantarans arrangement...Color Theme Brown, Gold and Cream...ada beberapa snap shot my kids and their cousin adam to share here...they are adorable and super cute!

Christmas - Public Holiday!

at office right now...but my heart jumping dah.rasa macam nak monteng jer keje arini..going back to manjung maybe tonight or tomorrow morning..actually nak menghantar barang hantaran zawiyah...majlis pertunangan dia...


alhamdulillah...im seriously into this business right now...I just want to be a very independent woman...I want to generate better income for myself and all the family members (not all actually - sbb ada yg masih tidak tulus di hati :( ) ... so for that purpose, I will make sure to make my self busy to the maximum (that is mean I have job!)


But at the same time, I always google how to generate extra income in what ever ways...I just want to live the life (work) like I will be here forever, n I want to change to be better muslimah, wife, mother and daughter like I will only live until tomorrow....

I HATE BUDAK NAKAL!

The title sound like I am a bad woman@mother...hahaha!but i really have a big problem with this kind of kids...NAKAL@TAK RETI BAHASA (even they are kids, they should know when people get mad or not - sbb saya bagitu dulu :P )


Alhamdulillah it is not my kids...YES my kids pun ada istilah nakal tu, but they still RETI BAHASA when i really angry with them...they keep quite or sit down silently...


apatah lagi kalau budak nakal ni yang tak bley nak marah...kang marah mak ayah dia terasa plak...nenek terasa lah...urghhhhhh....but sukati sayalah nak marah ok...kalau rumah saya lagilah sukati saya nak marah, n kalau tepi jalan budak nakal ni buat my kids pun saya ada hak nak marah...


by the way, i still google cara nak MENANGANI BUDAK NAKAL NI...sebab i don't want org cakap I plak yang ngalahkan bebudak bila marah diorang :)


From majalah PA&MA


Denda
Untuk memberi pengajaran kepada anak, tak salah kalau menggunakan sedikit denda apabila anak melakukan kesalahan seperti menyebut perkataan yang tidak baik. Ini supaya dia tidak akan mengulanginya.


Teladan
Jangan sesekali memukul anak dalam keadaan marah sebaliknya berikan nasihat supaya dia tidak melakukan perkara yang dilarang. Pada masa yang sama kita sebagai ibu dan bapa perlu menunjukkan sikap yang baik dihadapannya.


Buat peraturan
Cuba buat peraturan untuk anak mendisiplinkan anak. Contohnya buat peraturan dalam bentuk lukisan menunjukkan barang permainan di masukkan kedalam bakul. Dengan cara ini anak akan terdidik untuk mengemas barang mainannya selepas bermain. 


Beri Masa
Anak tidak akan berubah sekelip mata. Jangan mendesak dan beri masa untuk dia berubah.Jika dia masih nakal, keluarkannya dari aktiviti keluarga untuk tempoh tertentu. Kemudian jelaskan kenapa kita berbuat begitu dan katakan bahawa kita berharap supaya dia berubah.


Kenal Erti Persahabatan
Biar anak bermain dengan kawan-kawannya, malah yang lebih tua dari usianya. Melalui kawan dia akan belajar erti kesetiaan, menghadapi masalah bersama dan mengatasi konflik. Beri tanggapan positif tentang masalah yang mungkin dihadapi oleh anak dengan kawannya. Contohnya bila dia mengeluh tentang kawan yang tidak disukai, penting untuk kita untuk tidak memberi penilaian terhadap kawan-kawannya. Jangan lupa memberi nasihat supaya dia menjadi seorang kawan yang setia dan baik.


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Tip pertama

1- Baca bismillah 786
2- Baca ayat 71.. 71 kali

Caranya:

Letak air satu jug, Proses baca.. sekali jalan terus kedua langkah di atas tadi.
baca langkah 1 dan langkah 2, 
setelah selesai tiupkan ke dalam air tersebut.
Bagi minum ngan budak yang degil atau nakal tu.
Insya Allah tak degil atau nakal lagi budak tu.
kalau nakal juga ulang lagi..empat kali atau lima kali.
kalau nakal dan degil lagi..salah baca lah tu..hehehe ( kata ust Ismail )

Tips yang ke dua:

1- Baca ayat 1-6, surah Toha 1000 kali ( ini boleh baca ansur-ansur sehingga cukup 1000 kali)
2- Waktu budak tidur baca 3 kali dan tiup kat ubun-ubunnya.
3- Jangan dicium budak atau kanak-kana semasa mereka sedang tidur.. cium waktu tidur tu buat dia jadi degil. Ala waktu tak tidur kan banyak..cium je masa mereka jaga.

okiess...until then...chaousss....wassalam...

ICity for the very 1st Time

dah nearly 5 years duduk shah alam, and this is the 1st time I went to iCity....and the best thing is going there with my family from manjung and my kids and en suami (+ pompuan and anak sedara sesat sorang)

I Love my father so much....

Princess Jasmine (she always want to be a princess) addicted to all princess movies - barbie princesses, disney  n  etc...

We are enjoying the night...walaupun memang penat that they...hurmmmm tapi agak berbaloi....and lucky for us sebab kami dapat view gerhana bulan (which i really not alert about it will happened that night - so i just feel lucky lerrrrr)lihat gerhana bulan di iCity dimana langit terbentang luas :) with all meaningful people around me....so meaningful....Thank You Allah...

Blogging - the only way I can mumbles

yey...this is the only way I can 'speak' without anyone comments (especially -ve comments) and sebab for the time being I tak promote this blog to anybody :)...sapa2 yang google for it tu lain citer k...


1st - i miss our sect.12 hut...really miss it...that the most suitable house for all of us to live in...tapi nak buat macamana, ini semua kehendak-Nya...mesti ada yang terbaik telah ditentukan olehNya...mungkin juga dia mendengar my mumbles regarding how wonderful to live in new development bungalow house....n tadaaaaaa now WE already moved in...but yey....yang lama tetap terbaik...well..... :(


2nd - hidup ini mmg perlu banyak bersabar, especially bila dah berkeluarga n ada kids, well im very lack of patient, dari dulu sampai sekarang, n my father know it very well...(my late mother the most)...I still hardly learn how to manage my anger...even with my own kids...sometimes I'm so sad...why I have to be like a mad@bad person when i lost my anger...


3rd - I have a lot of plan@business@dreams@hobbies to do...hahahah....i cant google...it is just make me like cacing kepanasan to do everything in one time...and for all that, i cant get pregnant again dalam masa terdekat ini (is it OK?) actually i dont know...but i cant lie to myself, im not that type of person yang boleh spend my 2 months berpantang dgn duduk saja...errrrr not again...im so not ready to face it again after 2 times of it...no no no...not again, really....tapi kalau Allah dah bagi rezeki, I terima...but HE always know the best untuk hambaNya....thank GOD....


4th - I LOVE MY HUSBAND SO MUCH...walaupun dia DO NOT KNOW ABOUT THIS BLOG :)) 

Special Entry - Kufur Nikmat

This will be the 1st entry without any picture....just view one of my fb fren status about Kufur Nikmat...i google about the meaning of it ; Mengingkari Allah sebagai pemberi nikmat kepada manusia dan makhluk ciptaanNya...

Oh my...tersentap bila membaca her status...sebabnyer? i have been soooo mean to myself...betapa tak bersyukur dengan kehidupan yang Allah telah berikan...i live in a big house, with maid taking care of my children if im not at home or even i masak kat bawah pun maid tolong jaga...i have my own car yg cuma kadang2 org pinjam (yg mana i akan marah sgt2) - tapi actually that is still my car which i patut BERSYUKUR! n my life tak susah mana pun since my childhood until now...Ya Allah...ampun because i always mumbling about things that not belong to me yet...Ampun...

i have to change to be a better person, wife, daughter, and mom to my 2 kids...Jasmine n Qaliph...I MUST CHANGE!!!

Balik Manjung witout daddy

Lama tak update blog ni...we went back to my home town actually on August...just me, Jasmine n Qaliph....daddy as usual always busy with his job...ohhh ya, i also bring one of our bibik...haruslah sebab si qaliph ni maunye tergolek dalam kereta...ada 2 car seats but two of them refuse to seat on it...en hubby jgn marah k...mummy tau pembaziran telah berlaku (baru car seat tu, belum stroller, baby cot etc... hihihihihihi)...we spent 5 days at manjung...mummy sempat g mancing tinggal anak2 sedang tido n bila jasmine buka jer mata, abis bergegar satu manjung dia jerit nama mummy...hahahahaha...end up with no fish pun...hurmmmm...cepat jalan yer qaliph, senang mummy nak bwk jalan2 mancing bagai...

ayah tersayang

faveret dishes ever - asam pedas ikan duri...mama i miss ur air tangan

anak cekci mummy jasmine - membantu mummy 'mengemas' dapur

mummy hurry up...xabis2 dok dapur ni...nak buat camno, dapur maklong hang ni superb best oooo...

my face not showing that im boring enufff huh?

marina island banglo lot - 1 day hopefully at shah alam...amin!

my boboboi

kak long n her family pre raya pics

kids in actions - gambar paling lawak n sweet in my camera

ok daddy...we really hope you will join us for our next holiday in manjung...atok ayah keep asking about u...we always miss u n want to spend time with u...love mummy, jasmine n qaliph (it is an entry tribute to daddy?) hahaha....bye...till the next entry....

Qaliph Juhann Sauffi - my 2nd Edition

Name: Qaliph Juhann Sauffi bin Fadzri Juhann

Age: 12 month

DOB : 13th June 2010

POB : Hospital Bersalin UMRA Shah Alam, Seksyen 13

Qaliph...manja sangat dengan mummy dia...i love each time his begging me for milk...to see him crying is one of the most thing i like to do...he is soooo sweet....my precious after his kakak Jasmine n his daddy of coz...he make me missing him so much...every second i do miss him like crazy....mommy love you dear!

its weeked with mummy n daddy!!!

At first we planned going to Zoo Negara...dekat entrance pun dah nampak que ...so cancel ke zoo, we having lunch at restoran kari kepala ikan sumwhere at selayang....sooooo yummyyyyyy....thank you dad!
 

 

Mak Su Cik Cha Sports Day

Jasmine at her mak su cha's school. I love her wearing such a girly type tee and jeans...and oso her pinky soother!

During their Pak Su Omar Wedding Day

Omar & Ayun was my first attempt to use my new DSLR Canon Camera...hahahaha...please just ignore my PRO style of taking my beloved kids pictures...